She wrote a full account of the assault and how she recovered from the ordeal on her website as below:
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Because, although I was almost unfindable, I daydreamed of having a different haircut, a new name, a boyfriend, and become completely forever forgotten. As time went on it then became about realising, I can’t keep hiding, as thrilling as coffee in Paris seems.
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Having not yet established a thriving personal life, or had my own family, I would be anguished thinking if I reveal my story publicly, openly to the world, it would hinder my future romantic life. This is not exactly the advert I wanted before meeting the love of my life.
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I have been very warned by some I know not to tell you what I am about to tell you. cover custodia case iphone 11 O3839 wallpaper christmas 73uE2 Some alluded that I would pretty much be finished in whatever chances I have to make music publicly again, some have said I would be scorned by the public, another said I would be called selfish that the rapist is still at large.
It has served to delay my talking by weeks, and me just lying in bed looking at the ceiling trying to find meaning. I take my personal freedom over any amount of stones that can be thrown at me. If I destroy my future, I do it to honour my past.
Rape stripped me of my human rights, to experience a life with autonomy from fear. It has already stolen one third my of life. Custodia Cover iphone 11 pro max anese Anime Manga Elfen Lied Z1073 Case Deep down I do know it Cappuccetto rosso e la cover a crochet diy per l'iphone e lo would have been a shame and done such an immense disservice to my existence to just delete myself and forget what I had experienced in TPU Silicon Cover Iphone 5 5S SE 6 6S 7 8 Plus X XS CaseShopee music publicly.
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It was being told by a male, I had come to know and really like as a friend, that “most men would run a mile if they knew you were raped”. cover custodia case iphone 11 D1974 wallpaper dedsec 75eW3 I crumbled. Custodia Cover iphone 11 pro max PUBG Game O6813 Case I felt very hurt for a few days and reflected a lot and I thought, one night, like an epiphany, that the knowledge of my truth me no less lovable’. The dream of love did die, I finally realised it didn’t need to. And just like a light came on I realised ‘I know what it is to hurt, therefore I know what it is to be human’.
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It was my birthday, I was drugged at a restaurant, I was drugged then for four weeks and travelled to a foreign country. I can’t remember getting on the plane and came round in the back of a travelling vehicle. I was put into a hotel room and the perpetrator returned and raped me. I remember the pain and trying to stay conscious in the room after it happened. I was stuck with him for another day, he didn’t look at me, I was to walk behind him, I was somewhat conscious and withdrawn. I could have been disposed of by him. cover custodia case iphone 11 S7061 wallpaper avengers endgame 72aS1 I contemplated running away to the neighbouring city or town, as he slept, but had no cash and I was afraid he would call the police on me, for running away, and maybe they would track me down as a missing person. I do not know how I had the strength to endure those days, I did feel the presence of something that helped me stay alive. I flew back with him, I stayed calm and as normal as someone could in a situation like that, and when I got home, I sat, dazed, like a zombie. cover custodia case iphone 11 T5664 darkest dungeon wallpaper 16sX4 I knew my life was in immediate danger, he made veiled confessions of wanting to kill me.